Category: Dating and Relationships
i was wondering what view people have on sex, and related topics.
It's a wonderful and beautiful thing, what else is there to think about it?
i have never had sex, and want some idea of what it is like. i really want 6do it.
I thoroughlly enjoy sex, always have, that is good sex with the right partner. A bad sexual hang up can destroy a marriage/relationship, there is nothing worse than inhabition and prudishness in the bedroom, or anywhere else, for that matter.
come on guys and girls. i can't j-dge on only two people.
go buy some, then you'll know.
Get some social skills and try to find a girl you actually love, then have sex if it sceems like the right thing to do, and you'll learn all about it.
I agree with blindguy, that's the only way you will learn.
your questions are so vague I swear!
Well when he has no clue where to begin because he has less social skills then I do tact, and a girl has never said more then three words with out "fuck you asshole" being involved what's he supposed to do?
careful there, maybe I don't know how to express myself in the matters? Did you think of that?
I see your question as a valid one, but you're obviously looking for help, oppinions, guidance, ETC. You won't find much of that on here apparently. Only from selected few.
Oppinions on sex really depend on the person. Having never done it; you're not expected to know what it's like, and you have every right to wonder.
I've done it many times, something I'm neither proud of nor sad about.. No, I'm not a male slut, simply stating a fact.
There is really no answer to this question, for as stated above we all have our oppinions. You have to go explore, be adventuress, and you'll never know what it's like until you tried it. Amazingly enough, I think someone said that on the boards, but I'm not sure.
I'm trying to give you some look on why this question is not easy for people to come out and just answer; I hope I make sence. I'm probably one of the few individuals that will come straight out and answer your question. Maybe few others, and whoever answers is simply just trying to help you as I am. Nothing bad, mean, or whatever the hell you want to say/call it, can said about people that are answering your question.
You're young, you have a right to know whatever you wish that you haven't come across yet, or are planning to cross paths with in the near future.
As this topic is correctly posted in the dating board, I happily answered your question.
Take care,
Ryan/Goldberg
I'll too do my best to answer your question. First of all I have to agree that it's natural to wonder about what you haven't experienced but yet seems to be such a part of so many other people's lives. *smile* Secondly, I have to agree that it is difficult to directly answer your question. I think this is so because sex is a different experience every time; especially every partner. I've experienced one partner who couldn't care less about my own pleasure and therefore for me it became a duty, only a way to try and show him I love him, but I could have took it or left it. On the other hand there is my current relationship. His ultimate goal is my pleasure, and mine his. And that sex I can't describe. It's not just physical, but emotional too. Some things you just have to experience to truly understand, and like I said, each sexual partner is a different experience, but I'm by no means incouraging multiple partners, just a reminder to some that one bad time doesn't mean every time will be so. *smile* Hope this helps.
Fair points from both Goldberg and Witchcraft in that I would agree. If you want some help and advice, then ask for that! But when you go around asking what people's views on sex and related topics are, it sounds very perverse and like you're wanting to get off on what other people might say. Try something like asking directly for advice e.g. 'I have never had sex and often wonder what it would be like, and I was wondering if people could explain what it was like for them having sex'. The way you phrase it makes it sound like you want vivid graphic details, which is gonna get people's backs up! Try a more tactful approach next time!
right on lucy!
I agree that sex is fantastic, or can be under the right circumstances. It is good for you mentally and physically, but, under the right circumstances. In the wrong situation, it can cause a lot of damage and you can't undo that once it's been done. Don't let somebody take advantage of a situation when you are under the influence of drugs/alcahol etc.
Yeah he does have a good point.
I had to think quite a bit before posting this, beeing underage and all that.
First, yes, i have had sex lets just get htat streight.
But don't get me wrong, i don't go around saying ahh, i'm kewl, coz i had underage sex, you shood to, infact i don't say much about it.
However, i have yet to have sex with someone that i felt that i could spend the rest've my life with, which i am sure is a different feeling to what i felt.
Tbh, and i am a lil ashamed about this, it was more like @he was horney, she'd done everyone in the school and was horney to@ and it whent from there.
I think that you have been a bit brord when you asked for peoples views.
I mean what do you wanna know about it?
BEN.
Farm animals never say no, I love them so god damn much!
Well I don't have a problem with it, but you just want to are ready to make the responsible acctions that will more than likkely come out of it.
be sure you are careful and you
hmmm it's a tricky one. it's an experience that is very individual and personal if i'm honest, there's no right or wrong view on the subject of sex because any views a person has on it is or are usually based on someone's own experiences. for me if it's right and you are doing it with the right person then it's good. but as has been said make sure you don't regrette it later.
I don't have nothing against it at all. I am just not sure if I want it because I made bad experiences in the past. I still don'T know if I really want it, but maybe, if there is the right time and the right partner,r I might. I will not say I would never have sex. Never say never. I am just intimidated because of my past.
Rite and some times if you are with someone who is good to you it helps get past all the bad times and allow you to enjoy it.
exactly
I can only hope you are right there.
Remember that every experience is a new one and don't go into things with preconcieved ideas of how it's going to go. Approach it as something fresh and new. If you go into something with the mindset that it will go well, then it's much more likely to.
No. But oyu never know, I mean, some might think I am a "loser" in bed and break up with me then, lol.
I don't think that would happen. As long as you're horny and enthusiastic about it... I've slept with many virgins/non experienced types and it's kind of cool because if they have an open mind, you can teach them stuff... The whole key to it is being relaxed and giving in to all that stuff you want to do, naughty or nice...
I think the act is quite uh, disgusting, but... Ah well.
I personally think sex is a special thing and a gift of oneself to be shared only with the person they marry.
why do you find it disgusting if I may ask? If you're with someone you love, it's special and bonds you together like nothing else.
Rachel, your nuts! How can you say that! Granted I'm a virgin but I feel that with the right partner it'd be an awesome experience.
because rachel is an uneducated redneck? look at her other posts imho.
Sex is wonderful, I think. It's been so long since I've had it though that I don't remember for sure. LOL And as others have said, there's a real difference between getting with someone because both of you are horney and being with someone that you truly love.
I have had lots of good sex, and lots of bad, but never really awful. Sex is like most things, it is what it is!